Friday, October 05, 2007
Y You have stolen my heart....
a good relationship isn't a game you play or an ego trip you take. it is about love and two people. loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too. Labels: Inner Intentions
loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time. that's the reward and that's also the risk. unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like to love and be loved.
loving someone takes efforts. we have to be able to communicate with each other. nobody can read anyone else's mind. we always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's never perfect and takes time to develop.
getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed.
respect your significant other for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be. everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. no one is perfect. it is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other. true love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. it is also true love which makes a person change for the better.
a relationship needs commitments too. what is love without commitments from each other anyway?
it's like principles and values. everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them. the same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love.
every day everywhere, people fall in love ... but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love?
if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and who you might be in the future. when he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you're in love with the idea of being in love.
it is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking. let your heart guide you. (:
think about it...
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have a rocking weekend loves!
xoxo.
Joanne; twenty-one; 16jan'87
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